More Than Music: What I Learned In A Gay Men’s Choir

Lately in my feeds are a lot of videos of gay male choirs and it has me reflecting. Being part of a gay men’s choir wasn’t just about singing. It carried more emotional weight than a performance. It was my first venture into coming out that felt like a real a big risk besides the […]

Walking on the Shards of Shattered Dreams

It’s my birthday in about an hour, and I will turn 56. Year markers themselves stopped having their significance for me after 50. I realized the scam of it all by then. >Your 20s were supposed to be the best years of your life–they were my worst. .>Your 30’s? Uh oh! You are close to […]