The Tale of Two Gay Resorts

The club. Actually this first club I will speak about, that sparked this post, was recently featured on Gay Out as a must visit club internationally. I think the magazine must be bored in digging up destinations. It’s in my home state of Michigan and I was just there for the first time–The Dunes Resort. […]

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Looking For: Masc. 4 Masc. Only

If you been in the gay dating world for any length of time you have seen several lists, some short and others longer, of what can be considered “likes”, “attractions”, or “standards” that someone is looking for. A type perhaps. You may see things like: No fems! Be drama free! Be normal! No obese guys […]

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Stepping Back From The Gay Community

Intracommunity Stress and Disengagement First, I want to clearly state the problem and that it isn’t just me stating this. I’m backing this up with research. Then I will share a little a bit of my own story and where I am at with it. “Conceptual Framework Minority Stress Theory” traditionally emphasizes external stressors (homophobia, […]

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