Out of The Mouth of Gay Babes in the Wilderness

Can you relate? Where you’ve been in the gay world so to speak and actually for a while though it had its horror moments you enjoyed yourself ..you made friends…you did the things… But the gay drama, substance abuse around you, the wall you hit in relationships, and certain betrayals just finally had you realize […]

Goodnight, Gollum

I get melancholy at times and I don’t necessarily hide it because I like to show that it is okay to be vulnerable. You don’t have to put on masks and pretend everything is “fine” all the time. I wrote a post on my social media that I will share below expressing my melancholy. Now, […]

The Dirty Low Down Pt. 4

I thought I was done but I am not. Some new things have come up. Now don’t get me wrong. I am happy right now about a lot of things in my life. My job. My family. My mental and physical health as well as a recent raise. What I’m not happy about is more […]

Lessons Learned From The Hillsong Scandal

You may or may not have heard of Hillsong before but most people know them through their music and there wildly popular worship song, “Shout to the Lord!”. That one song was the kind of worship song that transcended denomonational lines between church boundaries and whatever they believed: Nondenominationl, Catholic, Baptist, and Presbyterian all could […]

The Dirty Low Down Pt. 3

When is he going to stop? How much more do you have to say, you blabber mouth? Well, I don’t know. I’m just going to keep going until I feel I am done. Until I feel I have all of the stuff from my under belly weighing me down that no one listens to or […]

Lessons Learned From Dirty Pops

Recently on a streaming app, I watched a documentary called “Dirty Pop”. It was quite an eye opener and shocking revelation for me on the back story behind the criminal underpinnings that went on with the music manager Louis Pearlman. Pearlman is well known for having brought to fame the likes of the Backstreet Boys, […]

The Dirty Low Down Pt. 2

I am continuing with my series in part two where I am just saying things as they are. Unfiltered. I’m tired of the BS in certain areas so this is one area where I can do that. I’m picking those things that are hot for me right now and going for it. My second thing […]

The Dirty Low Down PT. 1

Goodness gracious, I’m growing tired of the B.S. and there is more of it now in the U.S. than ever before in our religious and political arenas. I think this is why so many people are so dispondant in these two areas. That is why I feel a series coming on. I’m going to share […]

The Great Pretenders: a Tribute To Fakers Everywhere

I don’t know about you but I fed up with fake up crap. Fake pictures created by AI in place of real art. Fake dating profiles where I have wasted hours that have now become years with men who don’t mean what they say. Fake people where I blamed myself for my judgements of feeling […]

Lessons I Learned On Fire Island

As far as gay mecca’s go, Fire Island is one of those and not everyone ends up there. It’s entertaining just to hear some of the stories of those who went. Recently, I watched a film on Hulu called Fire Island, and I felt lieke I was right there. I don’t know what I was […]