This weekend I had a dilemma because there were multi-events going on around the new Barbie movie coming out. Gaydom is all aflame about using this new Barbie movie starting the studly Ryan Gosling as Ken as a platform. One event was bear themed but in a Barbie way (Barbie with chest hair? Ew no! […]
Read More The Barbie, The Brobie, and The Bearbie–Who Won?“LIVING MY BEST GAY LIFE!!” I see this posted on social media here and there, and I have mixed feelings about the statement. First, it is often, in my experience, posted by people showing themselves partying it up or slutting it up somewhere. To each their own, I’m not condemning that but is that “the […]
Read More What Does “Living Your Best Gay Life” Mean to You?A long time ago, I was a FUNDAMENTALIST Christian. I saw myself as a soldier in a spiritual battle. Set apart for a special purpose, attacked by the Devil and attacking the Devil’s plans. Different from your average Joe who didn’t know the “real” deal going on behind the scenes. Average Joe’s, “Muggles” in Harry […]
Read More on the wrong side of the warI want to experience your vulnerability but I don’t want to be vulnerable. Vulnerability is courage in you and inadequacy in me. I’m drawn by your vulnerability but repelled by mine. —Brene’ Brown There is real definite pushback on the LGBTQ community right now that we are a dangerous indoctrinating message to children–part of the […]
Read More The Real ‘Pride’ that endangers our childrenLet me be your private dancer for a moment as I talk about the one and only Tina Turner. But I don’t want to lose you because you’re simply the best, better than all the rest. We might feel like two people rolling on the river stopping only to see the spirit of the bear, […]
Read More What’s Tina Tuner Got To Do With It?In one the most epic original fantasies of all time, The Hobbit and the Lord of the Rings written by J.R. Tolkien we meet the likes of elves, trolls, wizards, and dragons but not just to entertain us. It is a story to teach and inspire us. It is a story that represents life. The […]
Read More How the World Got Trumped & What You Can Do About ItComing out later in life has its advantages. You are more objective and less immature as you step into the gay culture. You can read people and know who to trust and who not to…. oh heck, who am I kidding. There really aren’t any benefits coming out later in life LOL. When you come […]
Read More Coming Out Later in LifeI have a confession to make. I hated Covid for many reasons and I wouldn’t wish it to be here, but one reason it provided a blessing for me is that it took a constantly overcharged extroverted world and calmed it down into a more evened-out introverted balance for those of us who needed it. […]
Read More Only the LonelyI want to give a trigger warning. I’m about to “shoot from hip” as we jokingly say in my family. I’m just going to share from my gut and my heart. Because of a series of events and experiences, I need to write and express some thoughts. I come from a background of ex-gay ministry […]
Read More The Cost of Being Gay2022 wasn’t the worst of times and wasn’t the best of times. It was a year of a lot of white noise. Nothing is as bad, as far as I am concerned, as when Covid was at its worst and Trump was in office. Biden is in office today and though inflation is bad, we […]
Read More 2022: A YEAR IN THE MAKING
